Monday, May 26, 2014

The Hardest Decision



            I had the worst situation with my father. It happened when I was in 3rd grade of senior high school. The worst situation was persuading my father to support me to continue my study in UNDIKSHA. Actually, my father always agrees with my all decision except study in this university. He didn’t tell me the reason behind it. I did everything to make my father deal with my decision. My father being stubborn and it made me almost gave up tackling this situation. The hardest situation ever was persuading my father to deal with my decision to study in UNDIKSHA.
            My father and I always have different opinion when decide about my future school. It happened because of our personality. My father and I are stubborn. We never have the same opinion when discuss that topic (about my future school) because we have different option of my university. My father wanted me to be a nurse and continue my study in university which concern about health. In the other hand, I wanted to continue my study in UNDIKSHA because that’s my dream since I was at elementary school.
            One day, when I came home, my father didn’t talk to me. I didn’t know the reason why my father being likes that. My mother told me that my father was angry with me. I stuck for a moment, and then I remembered about my favorite university. I registered in UNDIKSHA without his permission. I didn’t think that my father knew about my registration. I tried to talk to him, but he was very angry with me. He didn’t want to talk to me. He hit my bedroom’s door until it broken down. I shocked and cried out loud.
            This situation made me realize that how hard to change someone decision, even your father and I promised with myself that I wanted to prove I can be one of students in UNDIKSHA. I did everything to make father trust with my decision. I studied very hard and also bought some test books to support my study. I showed him how serious I was with my decision. He saw my effort to reach my dream. I was surprised when he didn’t go to work on my test and chose to accompany me to Singaraja. I was very happy and speechless with his action.
            The worst situation made me learn a lot that everything that I want will come true if I do much effort to reach it. It was not easy for me to change my father decision about my future university and saw him angry with me. Finally, I did my best to show him that I was serious with my decision (study in UNDIKSHA ) and then he believe with my chose.

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  2. I love your writing Lisna,,,
    The way you tell your story is very good and also your story can inspire me. You did all of your effort to reach your dream to continue your study in Undiksha although your father did not agree with that decision... But, fourtunately, your father changed his decision because of you...
    And now you have proved it, you're a smart student...
    Keep working Lisna!

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    1. thank you Ita,
      I just want to share my experience to others and if this story can inspire you, I am happy and I hope this story can motive the others too. :)

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  3. Hi Lisna, nice to visit your blog and read your post.
    you have did a great thing in you life Lisna, you could prove your decision to your father and also you could change your father decision.i know it is not an easy thing to be done, but you did it to make your dream come true. god job Lisna.
    but i want to remind you on your last word " my chose" i think i will be better if you use "my choice"
    thankyou Lisna :)

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    1. thank you so much Arik for visited my blog and also gave comment too.
      yeah, changing the decision is not easy thing to be done, but I just did my best to change that.
      thank you for reminding me about my mistake, :D

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  4. I agree with ur statement (how hard to change someone decision, even your father ). Good story lisna
    You're smart students and I believe u can reach ur dreams ^^

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  5. Hai Lisna,
    your writing is already good, but you should more concern on your tense that you used. good job lisnong ^^

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  6. hi Lisna, your writing is good. maybe you can enrich your vocabulary and pay attention on diction try to make a better one. ;)

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  7. good writing lisnong,
    I think you've made a little mistake in your writing.
    in paragraph 4, "I did everything to make father", i think you should add "my" before the word "father"

    keep writing lisnong ^^

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  8. Hello Lisna, nice to read your writing :D
    Your writing is good but you've made a mistake in your writing. In paragraph 5 the last sentence " then he believe" I think it should be "then he believes".
    Good job mamak lisnaaaaa

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